An Italian young man came to China as an exchange student to study Chinese.

He and his fellow classmates enjoyed having fun on the weekends and usually headed to bars in downtown Guangzhou. Soon he found himself a Chinese girlfriend and spent time with her and with his friends.

He noticed that he got a lot of attention from Chinese girls just by doing nothing. But every time he went to a bar he didn’t want his girlfriend to come with him.

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Last month Jocelyn over at Speaking of China wrote On Dating Chinese Men and asked us fellow bloggers to do the same.

Her goal is to gather us mus reliable information about dating Chinese men as possible, so when others are searching it online they will get a better picture what is it really like to date a Chinese guy.

I dated a Chinese guy back in Finland already and have been living in China for three years now.

I dated one Chinese guy for two years, but it wasn’t meant to be.

Right now (October 2013) I’m living together with my Cantonese boyfriend and his parents.

We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.

The following tips are based on my own or my friends’ experiences.

” Then one day his Italian girlfriend, who have been missing him for months, came to Guangzhou to see him. Luckily his Italian girlfriend wasn’t that naive and soon figured out what was going on with her “boyfriend”. I know men cheating on their girlfriends back home. I know what it does to people and it’s nothing good.

They went to dinner with his friends and the Italian girlfriend sat on the right side of him. She flew back to Italy and took one thing with her. Single men having fun with several Chinese girls and letting a girl think that she is special and his only girl. I have been myself cheated very very badly before I moved to China.

I have heard of husbands cheating their wife without getting caught. My theory is that because it’s easy for a Western man (even easier if you’re tall and good looking) to get attention and more from Chinese women. Suddenly there are so many girls around them that it gets to their heads. Why don’t these men just man up and break up with their girlfriend or wife if they want someone else? Why they don’t feel responsible for their family that will get hurt? You don’t have to assure me that you don’t belong to this group.

But you if you get angry after reading this, think for a minute, why are you angry to me about something you have done? For all the Chinese girls reading this, take care of yourself.