I am head over heels for a man that is 43, and I'm 23. He has children from a previous marriage and I have a son from a past relationship but, I can see us together for the long haul.

Like I said , enjoy this for what it is but please remember you got your whole life in front of you , and many things to experience.

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As far as maturity levels he has his momemts where he is more inmature than me and I as well, He also is in better shape than I am.

So like I said you really can't judge a person from there age.

Love comes in many different shape and sizes and often ages so dont't let a good opportunity pass you by cause you might not get another one. We spent three wonderful years together and it failed due to other issues.

He also teaches me alot of things In life that is very important.

I as well teach him alot of things resolving todays society.

I love this man with my soul and we are getting married next year.He's been married twice before with 4 kids(2)from each marriages and the youngest being 16 months.hi there uhh i totally agree with "age doesnt matter" thing but i think that theres at least a bit of a limit here people. and thats fine but guys lets be serious for a moment...20 years older? Your only in your 20s, you can afford to be in a relationship with him but please don't think it will aways be so good. In your 20s your still learning about yourself and you will change. Look around at so many examples and you'll probably see what I'm saying here. I've seen this so many times , usually the girls get over him and move on , and they stay the same going fromone to another. I'm sorry to say but I don't think it can work out long term if a guy is almost twice your age. My bf dated a girl half his age for 3 years , now I'm with him and I know he clearly has commitment issues. Another time he was with women twice his age when he was in his 20s.