After I talked with some friends, I went to the courthouse and reviewed Mike's public divorce file.

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Oct 2014 I have been dating ''Mike'' for a few months.

I'm a single parent and I live in an apartment and run a business owned by my ex.

Mike thinks that I own the business and although I don't know how much money Mike has, he owns a glamorous home and he tells me that he is an entepenuer and he lives off his investments, so I don't want him to think I want to be with him for his lifestyle and fortune.

I haven't been with anyone serious in a while, and being with Mike is exciting.

I have dreams of traveling the world with Mike and being the one to share a glamorous life.

I have a feeling that Mike may want to get married and that is exciting.

From what Mike has told me, his ex just up and left him and he has to care for the kids.

As any woman would be, I am curious about the ex and I want to know more about what happened in the marriage but I don't want to put Mike on the spot.

On one hand, if I hadn't gone to the courthouse, I wouldn't know any of this.

And if it was the woman who was getting support, no one would question it.

But on the other, maybe I'm old fashioned and I don't want to waste my time with a many who isn't a traditional earner. I like Mike It sounds like neither of you has been completely honest with the other - you have both misrepresented yourselves, so I can't see this relationship going anywhere good from here.